Tell me why

Today, I have a lot of sentiments, so i m gonna share with u :)

My fellow process engi (coz i m in charge of project engi for this proj) told me that my valve list, equipment list and instrument list all CMI (these are the works of a process engi, but I gonna help out in both process and project, so i did them). So i ask him why. He said they just look weird weird. I told him i followed his template to draft out, and why is there a prob? I just wanna know why and I m sure there is rm for improvement (I NEVER insist mine is right). He didnt wanna tell me the prob, so i persist. Then he reluctantly told me.

This brings me back to last Thurs, he read my equipment comparison (which is the work of a project engi and he, a process engi, knows very little), and said its wrong again. My proj manager has read and told me its fine, but he said its not. So i asked him what is the correct way? He said he dunno also. Fine, so i said Ms ** has read and did not say anything, so i dun see the need to change, unless u can gimme a sample of the 'correct' version. Later on, i ask Ms ** (proj manager) and she said its ok wat, if ** said its wrong, ask him to get u the correct one.

I m perfectly fine with ppl rejecting my work and changing it, coz i m new and i may not do things the right way. But u have to tell me why, so i can learn and improve next time. Do not just change my work or simply tell me 'innocently' : it looks weird. < This is a dumb answer which i do not accept. And when i do not accept, i make sure i state my point (and displeasure) right in their faces (except to big boss la) :P